I have a confession to make: I am going through an... uncomfortable season right now. I am currently meeting with a support group once a week to work through our past trauma and current struggles in life, addressing any sex or love addiction that is controlling us and keeping us from living in freedom, confidence,… Continue reading What True Love Looks Like
Ha, this is going to be interesting. I haven't tackled this kind of subject in, well, ever. This whole post is a bit terrifying to talk about, mostly because I worry I won't make sense as my thoughts are a bit scattered and/or that I will sound like a silly, prude, and brittle Christian female… Continue reading 25 and a Virgin: Why I Am Waiting
LOVE what she says in this post. Though I am not married and don’t know this firsthand, I fully agree with everything she says.
To my dear daughter,
As you grow, many boys will enter your years. They will speak words of love and passion, of wanting you–all of you.
Their sex will be lacking.
Believe me, dear girl, I know what crazy hot lovemaking is made of. Until the boy can assure you of the following, it is not true passion.
If he can patiently wait for over three years. From pregnant to nursing to pregnant to nursing, with your hormones fierce, and desire often dead. “Please, just let me sleep. I am so tired.” will be your common response. Until he can love you still, choose you still, it is not true passion.
If He can call you beautiful when even your feet are swollen from baby belly. Call you sexy when your legs run thick with varicose veins from the same. Call you perfect after your belly hangs loose with skin…
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