Hello my dear future husband, This letter is going to be pretty melancholy and I apologize in advance that it is so. I am just feeling so discouraged and need to get some things off my chest. I hope you don't mind.
My dear future husband,
I thought about you today.
... as I drove, I wished I could see you face to face to share with you all that I had been experiencing.
Now, I grew up being told sex before marriage is damaging; that it wasn’t God’s original design. I just had never really taken time to look it up for myself. I only took my parents’, teachers’, and pastor’s word for it. They were older than me, so they must know all! – right?
But then I went to college and into the real world. Since then, I’ve heard countless points from people who are okay with having sex before marriage.
As much as these questions and thought process appear to bring order in my life towards my future spouse, I’m not interested in living based off of human logic. I want to know what GOD says.